tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28571438.post1739493198680980380..comments2023-11-05T02:58:24.622-06:00Comments on Single Mom finding herself.....: The bricks that surround me.....TxGambithttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00752540661719905305noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28571438.post-76338262575981327012008-05-14T20:25:00.000-05:002008-05-14T20:25:00.000-05:00I married my opposite. I kept things hidden from ...I married my opposite. I kept things hidden from him over the years afraid of what he would think. One day (about 10 yrs later)I sat down with him and let it all go. At first he was hurt that I had not allowed him to see the whole me, but was VERY understanding. I cannot tell you how free I felt. <BR/>Hubby loves me. All of me. He has NEVER called me names or put me down. He accepts me for me. My self esteem issues are from my teen years (before we met)and he is very understanding of that. <BR/>Be yourself, your real self. If he has a problem with that then let him go. It's time to tear down that brick wall.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28571438.post-18913467239908478782008-05-14T19:02:00.000-05:002008-05-14T19:02:00.000-05:00Thanks everyone.Woodland Fairy, I think in a lot o...Thanks everyone.<BR/><BR/>Woodland Fairy, I think in a lot of ways you are right. I am "cheating" him in a way by not showing everything. But you know, the self-esteem hurts a lot.<BR/><BR/>Not sure what Trapped's last comment means. No reason for fightin'...TxGambithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00752540661719905305noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28571438.post-14037706715251420962008-05-14T17:36:00.000-05:002008-05-14T17:36:00.000-05:00fairy, them's fight'n words!fairy, them's fight'n words!lincldadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10710657520709918314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28571438.post-2988156267265905532008-05-14T11:43:00.000-05:002008-05-14T11:43:00.000-05:00You totally need to show your real self, your whol...You totally need to show your real self, your whole self, especially after 2 years of dating. If he loves you, he needs to be in love with the whole package, not just the plesantries you show to him. I don't know this guy, but if he knew you weren't showing your whole self to him, don't you think he would be offended/hurt by it? Just a thought.Fairyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11573521783935074596noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28571438.post-40364092464752550142008-05-14T02:35:00.000-05:002008-05-14T02:35:00.000-05:00great post, my friend.great post, my friend.Trixie Twatwafflehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12712977707578497875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28571438.post-38908306054508314222008-05-13T20:40:00.000-05:002008-05-13T20:40:00.000-05:00Well I am sure a Wii will help a bit but I hope th...Well I am sure a Wii will help a bit but I hope there are other things he likes. I have a few examples of things but I will save those for another day. :)TxGambithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00752540661719905305noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28571438.post-11652049672308140202008-05-13T19:15:00.000-05:002008-05-13T19:15:00.000-05:00Well, i'm not sure what ol' goofball would think, ...Well, i'm not sure what ol' goofball would think, but a Wii sure wouldn't hurt the situation.lincldadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10710657520709918314noreply@blogger.com