This is my second book review for TLC Books. I hope that I can continue to review books.
I was asked to read The Alchemy of Loss by Abigail Carter. I wasn't sure how I was going to feel about this or how I would feel or relate to a widow. I choose to not have a spouse any longer. She did not.
From the minute I picked up the book until it was done, I was hooked. Obviously I am reading a book about a widow, a widow of 9/11. I knew how the big story went. I knew that when she got the first phone call from him saying where he was, that it wasn't going to be a happy story; however, I was not expecting to be sucked in the way I was.
As she watched the news, as she waited for news, anything, I was waiting and hoping too. I felt silly because I knew it wasn't going to end with him coming home but she wrote it so well that I was waiting for him with her. I kept thinking was it because I had felt strong emotions over the event as well and so I knew how I felt not even having lost anyone or was it her writing. I am chalking it up to both because the rest of the book was written in much the same way and I was spellbound as I read it.
I also saw how I could relate to a widow in the pages. She was grieving and my own grieving a failed marriage is many of the same steps and emotions. There are many differences of course because I made a choice and I still see my ex.
I definitely would recommend this book to any reader. We can all relate in different ways to Abigail and her journey. I wish her luck.
So check it out!
Monday, December 22, 2008
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4 comments:
Great review! I had heard of this book but hadn't read it. I think you are right - the loss of a spouse and the loss of a relationship might seem to be different, but I bet the grieving process is similar. *Knock wood* I hope I don't have to deal with either one because I don't know if I'd be strong enough.
That's one thing I admire about you, incidentally - I have seen great strength as you have journeyed to find yourself. And for what it's worth, I don't think the journey is ever really done. There is always something new to discover!
Margaret, you just made my day! thanks sweetie!
Hi, thanks for the review for TLC! I thought you might be able to relate to Abby because you're each raising children alone and grieving the loss of a relationship, albeit for different reasons. I'm glad you liked the book. I hope it finds a wide audience.
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