So every summer, I am faced with one major decision: What am I going to do without the kids?
It seems like a simple thing. It really does. Everyone offers great ideas. But some of the things I just am not willing to do alone: dinner, movie. And the open ended one is, "Well just do something for yourself."
What does that mean? I mean I guess I know WHAT it means but I don't know how to do it.
Most of the year, I have the kids. I get to go out some, mostly with Goofball, sometimes with other friends. But when possible, I try to do something with the kiddos. But I am limited to a certain radius from home. I can go so distance from home, but not overnight and I try to stay in places that I can get a phone call.
So since most of the year I have them, when I don't, I am at a complete loss as to what to do. I still have to think about the doggie but he is pretty good. Just no overnights unless I can get someone to come look after him or see if there is room at the Inn (read: Vet)
What am I doing with my time?
I went to dinner with an very good friend who I have known since elementary school. That was fun!
I had a phone chat with a long-lost (and now found) friend from my early Navy days! For whatever reason, we lost touch but thanks to Facebook, have found each other again. She is talking about coming to visit me too!
Then I am hoping to go visit my cousin this week, might see my school friend again. We have a family party on Saturday and in there some time I want to clean the house some more. (One project at a time)
I volunteered to help at some community thing for work but haven't heard an update on things as of yet.
Where is Goofball?
He is out of town for an undefined amount of time. I miss him but he does need this break. I'll be here when he is ready.
My big thing this year is to stay healthy! Last summer was chaos. I don't even want to think about it. Not even going to link to last year's stuff. I have already taken positive steps to get there. I started Weight Watchers (at work) back in March. I have lost 13 lbs to date. Slow and steady wins the race.
So those are my summer plans, does it sound like I am doing something for myself? I hope so! because I feel like I am. :)